Archive for the ‘Family matters’ Category

Are parents enablers?

Live life

I wasn’t encouraged, pushed or told to by my parents. I do do those things. I go to every show, every, sport event, every Parent Teacher meeting. I push, I check, I moan and I cajole. I do it all. I am NOT a Tiger Mum, but I am pushy, I am not a Helicopter Mum, but I watch what they do, and I try ask them for more.

How much do you reward your kids?

Normally when you get married, you hopefully get onto the same page, and you teach your kids the same thing, and you grow together. when you do it with different people, its MUCH more difficult. Especially if you believe different things.

LTM6 – How involved does one get?

I know it’s a hard question, but I’ve been asking myself how much one should get involved in your boyfriends child’s life and how much he should get involved in mine?

LTM4 – Should kids play violent games?

I wonder if I should be, cos it seems that loads of parents don’t think it’s a problem. But actually it is.

Letter to Mom 2 – (LTM 2) – Money is no object

I wish I could call you and say these things to you, but I can’t so it seems that this is the only way to do it.
You always listened without judgement, and somehow you always still supported me in an unstinting nonjudgmental way.

Letter to Mom 1 – (LTM1) – I miss you !

Wish you were here.
Wenwen

As tween moves to teenagers and further

Have we lost the plot?

We’ve lost the plot – destroyed the youth, and the future along with it, and it’s gonna take a loooooooong hard road to get back to civility and financial stability. Let’s get started !!!

Dad dilemmas

What is it with fathers who are unable to create a relationship that makes the child happy and fulfilled in the relationship?

Time is awastin’…..

Other than that, there’s not much but companionable silence, and the wish in me that we had more interesting stuff to talk about.

When your past affects your present.

I miss the lazy long Sundays around the table. I miss the free and easy phone conversation. I miss the engagement you can have with your children in a very calm and easy manner. Basically I miss family dinners.

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